I am reminded of a couple I knew some time ago, that dressed alike and even shared a single cell phone. I always wondered why they never had a separate phone, even more so why they felt the need to dress alike. In intimate relationships we often begin to form a joint identity through activities […]
When I read this poem for the first time, I immediately thought of my own introduction to love stories and happily ever after’s. We all grow up with a set of rules and practices that we learn in order to secure love. The way we love someone else ultimately is the manifestation of how we […]
If someone you care about says “if you love me, then you would (fill in the blank),” you are actually hearing that person’s anxieties. Underlying these anxieties is a need to control the parameters of how love is shown. You want your partner to make you feel better by trying to communicate in the only […]
